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David T. Wood

 

COUNSELING FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS (FAQS)

Q. What is counseling like with you?
Usually a couple of sessions are needed to acquire a holistic picture of the dynamics, personalities, and challenges faced by the client(s). Collaboration about goals and an initial plan of therapy are then developed. In-session discussions, experiences, and homework assignments are employed to maximize the effectiveness of therapy. Progress is periodically evaluated to adjust the course of treatment, and flexibility is important to contend with unexpected turns.

I endeavor to meet the client at their level of spiritual need as well, respecting the uniqueness of each party. I will pray and refer to Scripture in session according to the expressed needs and desires of the client(s).

There are many orientations and approaches to counseling. A counselor’s Professional Disclosure Statement should describe the orientation (s)he uses. I would be happy to answer any further questions you might have about my approach.
Additionally, there are other ways of dealing with life’s challenges besides counseling with a professional. For example, support groups, self-help books, and/or lay counselors can contribute to coping with many kinds of problems.

Q. Are you a doctor?
No. I have a Master’s Degree, and am licensed in Oregon as a Marriage and Family Therapist (L.M.F.T.). Counselors with higher levels of formal education include psychologists, and psychiatrists, the latter having a medical degree with emphasis in psychology. Certain tests, evaluations, and any pharmaceutical prescriptions are beyond my level of training. I would, if necessary, refer you to someone who could accomplish these particular tasks.

Q. What do you charge?
My fifty-minute session fee is based on the individual’s or couple’s gross annual income, and ranges from $45. to $80. Adjustments can be made to accommodate special circumstances. Please see my Professional Disclosure Statement for the details. Premarital counseling is usually a package fee of $245. Payment is customarily expected at the time of service, either by cash or check, unless otherwise prearranged.

Why I don’t utilize insurance companies
Many, if not most insurance companies have yet to acknowledge the important influence that relationships, especially marriage, have on general health and well-being. They will therefore not provide funds for marriage or couples’ counseling without insisting that at least one member be formally diagnosed with a mental health disorder. While this is sometimes appropriate, I believe it skews the focus of this mode of therapy more toward the “identified patient” rather than onto the relationship itself. Insurance companies also require continuous treatment rationale centered on the individual(s) labeled with the diagnosis in order to continue to fund what the insurers define is necessary duration of treatment.

There is the possibility of increased risk that confidentiality and privacy could be compromised, because personal health information required to be shared with the insurance company is no longer kept solely within the confines of the counseling office. Insurance companies then maintain their own sets of records, conceivably for years.

From a practical standpoint, there is a thick layer of paperwork and administration needed to support the insurance machine; time and energy for which I would much rather apply more directly toward my clients needs, such as additional research and consultations on their behalf.

Lastly, my sliding scale is comparable to some insurance company levels of co-payment. It’s possible you could find your fee to be little more than your out-of-pocket deductible expense.

Q.  I’d like an appointment; what do I do next?
Call me! We’ll arrange a time to fit your schedule as much as possible. Most appointments can be arranged within a week or so. Meanwhile, you can download the Professional Disclosure Statement and appropriate Intake forms and fill them out to bring with you when we meet. You’re under no obligation beyond the first session should you decide, after meeting, that there may be a better “fit” for your circumstances.

 TYPES OF COUNSELING OFFERED

MARRIAGE COUNSELING – When there are:
communications break-downs often
less understanding and trust, more frustrations
the same old arguments
a crisis (such as infidelity)
In marriage counseling it is the relationship itself that I consider to be the “client.” Both partners contribute to the dance, and each has their part to play. Communication skill-building between them is often a part of this mode; with the increase of true understanding, often many problems shrink, become more manageable, or disappear altogether. Many aspects of individual counseling are also used with each partner.
At least one individual session with each partner is used to offer each the freedom to describe their perspectives and concerns, without adding more stress to their relationship without compromising its integrity.

INDIVIDUAL ADULT COUNSELING – When there are:
distortions leading to negative self-image
struggles with mood control (anger, anxiety, depression, etc.)
problem solving difficulties
habits to be changed
Much of the approach used for couples would also apply for the individual; problem-solving, self-understanding, skill-building, communication and support are potential aspects to be explored. Present circumstances, historical influences and personal strengths are often examined to develop a strategy catered to the individual needs and goals of the client. Brief phone contact between sessions is free of charge. I customarily assign homework as a part of the therapy process.

PREMARITAL COUNSELING – When there are:
ceremony officiating requirements
compatibility curiosities
exaggerated expectations
gaps in life planning
I offer a very affordable package for engaged couples, or those who wish to explore their compatibility. It includes a comprehensive assessment survey (PREPARE) and focus on Scriptural foundations for the covenant of marriage. It takes five 1 ½ hour sessions within about a six week period. My Professional Disclosure Statement contains more details.

 

 


I'm interested in counseling, but what do I do now? 

Call me at 503-930-6222 for an appointment.  I would be happy to answer any further questions you might have, or send you a brochure about my practice and/or pre-marital counseling specifics.

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David T. Wood
 

 

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